Therapy for Millennials
COUNSELING FOR “20-TO-30 SOMETHINGS”
Our Therapy for Millennials (Generation Y) helps those at a loss, often feeling disconnected, overwhelmed and inadequate. Specifically tailored counseling for young adults between 18 and 35 yrs old.
Find personal security, emotional stability, personal growth and general peace of mind.
Specifically tailored therapy for Millennials (Gen-Y) who have grown along such things as workplace trauma, student debt, political crises, online bullying and natural instability.
Our early adult years (18-35) can be a lot more difficult than many acknowledge. We face many difficulties in our journey to middle age and maturity. Young adults today face challenges that early psychology could never have dreamed of. In an information age where we are constantly stimulated, overloaded by decision and expected to achieve, it can be hard to feel comfortable in your own skin.
Many young adults find themselves in agonizing over:
- Early career pressure (including work-related mental health issues)
- Early life or existential crises.
- Struggles over identity and independence
- Coping with decision overload
- Navigating more uncertain careers, relationships and friendships
- Substance use
- Integrating your childhood into your life and possibly parenting
- Social media overload and body image issues.
- Increased instances of anxiety and depression
Leaving college where everything was planned for you and provided is a major shift. Learning to make your own way in an ever changing world can be overwhelming (especially combined with other mental health struggles). Do you find yourself grasping at straws to find personal security, emotional stability, personal growth or general peace of mind. While there is no diagnosis for general life challenges, there are therapies for you. Our therapists can help.
1-on-1 Therapies for:
OUR THERAPY APPROACHES
Our Clinicians also help with:
- Personal Growth
- Navigating Life Transitions (relocation, career changes, stage of life growth)
- Existential Concerns
- Managing Anger or Panic
- Gaining control over Substance use & Addiction
Contact us to schedule an appointment or ask a question.
Breaking the trend of being poorly Stereotyped.
It’s become a cultural meme to call millennials whiny, spoiled, self centered, etc. But in all reality millennials are more willing to introspect and seek therapy when they most need it. Where older generations sidelined the benefits of therapy (and passed their particular issues to the next generation) millennials are willing to break the cycle. At times they have even been called the Therapy Generation.
In fact Millennials, the Y-Generation is the most open-minded, ecologically aware and philanthropic of the past. Seeing this progress gives us some extra hope for the future.
As long as you are a millennial that sees in themselves room for improvement and are willing to make changes to your life, therapy can help.
Why Are So Many Millenials Struggling Right Now?
Well for one thing, it’s difficult to be fulfilled in such an economic situation.
While there is much you can do personally, let’s be honest that not everything can be solely your fault. Those who have graduated in this environment are facing struggles that are unparallelled. “The unemployment rate among millennials was around 8% before the pandemic hit, and now 35% of millennials have lost their job, making them the hardest hit by the pandemic.
Even those that have jobs are participating in a disjointed “gig economy” more than ever before. In such positions, career instability is the norm. This is likely to continue as self-employment in the United States could triple to 42 million workers by 2020, and 42 percent of those people are likely to be millennials.” [WSJ]
On top of that, even those that are employed are unsatisfied.
Johann Hari in his book “Lost Connections” points out that careers are almost universally unsatisfying. “Thirteen percent of us like our work most of the time. Sixty-three percent of us are what [we call] “sleepworking”—you don’t like it, you don’t hate it. Twenty-four percent of people hate their work. So you think about that.
New grads currently working or just graduating into this pandemic are going to feel trapped in a position if they are lucky enough to find one. So let’s be clear, if you find yourself un- or under-employed (and struggling with your mental health) understand that you are not the only one facing this right now.
Eighty-seven percent of people don’t like the thing they’re doing most of their waking lives.” [Source]
Perhaps it is due to the high workplace stresses we face. As one study points out, “higher levels of workplace stress were associated with higher levels of depression and anxiety as well as lower levels of resiliency, job satisfaction, and healthy lifestyle beliefs.” [Source]
While the job outlook is grim, you can consider some options to change your priorities or at least discuss some coping options with someone who cares.
The Challenges of Social Media
Millenials and young adults are more active on social media than any other generation (so far). This is concerning as people that use social media the most are also more prone to mental health struggles. A study published in Computers in Human Behavior, found that people who report using seven to 11 social media platforms had more than three times the risk of depression and anxiety than their peers who use no more than two platforms, even after adjusting for the total time spent on social media overall.
“This association is strong enough that clinicians could consider asking their patients with depression and anxiety about multiple platform use and counseling them that this use may be related to their symptoms,” said lead author Brian A. Primack, MD, PhD, assistant vice chancellor for health and society in Pitt’s Schools of the Health Sciences and the center’s director. Source
We at LifeStance take this into consideration as well. We don’t believe that social media will “rot your brain”, but it does change how clients think of themselves. Some clients have found great benefit in limiting how often they use social media or how many apps they use and found a better quality of life. For many, a social media detox of 2 weeks can help put this into perspective. You can also take the time during these two week to reflect on what you really value in your life and put things in perspective.
Millennials are the most likely generation to be the children of divorce. As a result many millennials have grown up with uncomfortable attitudes towards commitment and relationships in general. When you consider the unique career concerns of millennials, maintaining a relationship can be difficult. This is one reason why we offer relationship focused therapy for individuals [LINK] or couples therapy for couples issues [LINK].
Some relationship issues that we address with therapy include:
- Relationship anxieties and planning – Many young adults find that an uncertain future constantly undermines their relationships.
- Communication Issues – Relationships require a level of communication that few are naturally good at. After all, it is never taught to us by parents, school, friends…[LINK]
- Infidelity – Millennials too struggle with cheating, “losing the spark” and dissatisfaction. [LINK]
- Jealousy and Trust Issues – Some people find out as they have serious relationships in adulthood that they have deep trust issues that they can’t overcome on their own.
- Boundaries in a relationship – Many people suffer from maintaining appropriate boundaries with their partner. Learning to set and stick with boundaries that matter to you is important for any relationship, especially romantic ones.
- Sexual dysfunction– After growing up with pervasive internet porn, many couples expect unrealistic things from their relationships. Some develop porn addiction and some develop sexual dysfunction.
Our sex and relationship focused therapists have seen all of this and more. Contact us to get scheduled today.
LifeStance uses a client-centered approach that lets you guide therapy. We simply help you in your mental processes and push when necessary. Our approach is a little different, so here is what to expect:
This first meeting is an introduction for both you and your counselor. Your therapist will explain the therapy process and go over the specifics of informed consent. From there, your therapist will gather additional information about your history, current circumstances, as well as struggles and personal strengths, which will help them to define a treatment plan that aligns with your goals.
The goals that you set early on, give us a measure to grade ourselves. We take outcomes seriously enough that we use follow-up surveys to grade ourselves and find better ways to help you. What works for one person may not work for another, so these measures keep us accountable to you throughout our time together.
This is also the chance for you to learn more about your therapist. We encourage you to ask questions and get to know them; the relationship you build with your therapist will be the most important part of your work together.
2nd Session and Following Sessions:
In your weekly sessions, you and your therapist will use evidenced based therapies to help you address your main symptoms. If we find that you have symptoms and goals that are best served with a certain method we will not hesitate to present that option to you.
Our goal is to get you back to living comfortably as quickly as possible.
Our goal is for you to find relief for your concerns and be ready to “graduate” from therapy. In the last few sessions with your therapist, you will review your initial goals, the progress you have made, and solidify new skills for managing anxiety to practice on your own.
At your last meeting together, you’ll have the time for the meaningful goodbye with your therapist. You can always feel free to come back for a yearly follow-up.
First Session Within 72 Hours of Calling
We book you an appointment within 24 hours of contacting us (usually less) and make sure your first appointment is soon after.
Call our office to schedule your appointment, or for any changes regarding scheduling.
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LifeStance Washington Locations
Tacoma Meadow Park
12900 NE 180th St, Suite 160
Bothell, WA 98011
Plaza 600 Building
600 Stewart St, Suite 1228
Seattle WA 98101
–Coming Fall 2021–
221 N Wall St.
Spokane WA 99201
5909 Orchard Street West
Tacoma, WA 98467
2420 S. Union Ave, Suite 100
Tacoma, WA 98405
5201 Olympic Drive, Suite 210
Gig Harbor, WA 98335
21727 76th Ave West, Suite C
Edmonds, WA 98026